Dave, running his own email server that MANDATES TLS, cravenly wrote:
>
> Example:
>
> Jan 27 17:16:11 mail postfix/smtp[10770]: 801CD21331:
> to=<oneofmystillannoyedcorrespondents@conman.org>,
> relay=brevard.conman.org[elided]:25, delay=67644, delays=67640/0.01/4/0, dsn
> =4.7.4, status=deferred (TLS is required, but was not offered by host
> brevard.conman.org[elided])

  You elided the IP address but left the name visible.  You do realize that the IP address is just a DNS lookup away, right?  That it's easy to see that brevard.conman.org is 66.252.224.242. 

> So this made it safer to temporarily make it mandatory, do email for a
> few hours, get who failed out of my logs, craft the email to those
> failing, then relax the defaults for starttls back to "may".

  May?  May?  oneofmystillannoyedcorrespondents@conman.org is right for being annoyed at you, because there's no "may" about sending email to this list (or to you, Dave).  It's TLS or pack sand to Gmail because oneofmystillannoyedcorrespondents@conman.org refuses to run TLS (at this time---Dave you seem incapable of listening to those who state it's not as easy as you make it out in some cases).

  Great job making friends and influencing people, Dave.  Good job!

  -spc (No need to hide behind oneofmystillannoyedcorrespondents@conman.org)