In your case select Ethernet with overhead, and manually put 24 into these packet overhead field, as the kernel already accounted for 14 of the total of 38.
I assume in your case this will not change your results a lot, as you most likely used full MTU packets in the test flows, I believe your low latency under load increases show that you have not much buffer bloat left... I would still recommend to use the correct per packet overhead to be on the right side...